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"My mother waits for me " - picture at the Dornad Provincial Museum , Choibalsan. Mongolia |
A Tribute
To Mothers
by Dr. Val Farmer
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I
have witnessed the love of my own mother. Her devotion to her children,
grandchildren and great-grandchildren has become a legendary memory that
reverberates through the generations that have followed her.
I
have witnessed the love and devotion of my wife Darlene for our children and
grandchildren. It is an incredible thing to observe and experience first
hand. This story isn’t finished and will only get better with time. I am
witnessing the love and dedication of our five daughters and daughter-in-law
for their children. I stand in awe and wonderment of who a mother is and what
she does.
I
wrote this tribute to mothers years ago, inspired by my own mother. I have
revised it a little and wanted to share it with you once again as a tribute
to all the mothers who valiantly and selflessly give so much of themselves to
their children.
SHE
IS A MOTHER
She
is a mother.
She
know her children better than anyone. She has carried them in her arms,
and
in her heart.
She
is the woman who bore them, loves them, teaches them, inspires them,
and
sometimes disciplines them.
She
rocks the baby. She reads the stories. She hears the prayers. She sets the
standards.
She
teaches of God, scriptures, prophets
and
commandments.
She
is a mother.
She
is the best friend God has given children. She forgives, She trusts, She
encourages.
She
is the woman who dries the tears, bakes the cakes, plays the games,
and
sings the songs.
She
makes memories out of holidays, birthdays and vacations.
Her
smile lights the way. She is a refuge when there is no other refuge. She is a
giver of gifts.
She
gives affection and sometimes reproach. Her food nurtures the body
and
the soul.
She
is a mother.
She
is wisdom, common sense and patience. She is tenderness, loveliness, and
kindness.
She
is a source of safety, hope, and comfort.
She
is a healer, a nurse, and a doctor. She is a cook, a chauffeur, and a
counselor.
She
is faith, perseverance, and courage. She is love, duty,
and
devotion.
She
is a mother.
She
fashions genius and awaken intellect. Her heart is her children’s schoolroom.
She
is the loom upon which character is woven. She teaches of lessons past
and
beckons toward new horizons.
She
encircles them with love and then she pushes them away. Because she dreams,
they dream.
She
delights in their triumphs
and
in their goodness.
She
is a mother.
She
is no stranger to pain. In giving birth, She visits the valley of the shadow
of death.
In
giving love, her heart is subject to hurt and loss. She is no stranger to
grief.
Her
children are not perfect. No one knows it better than she.
Their
errors give a double blow. One to themselves
and
one to her.
She
is a mother.
For
her teenagers, her lamp is always lit. Her love is a shield for them against
temptation.
She
listens, empathizes and sometimes scolds. She makes burden light
and,
when necessary, she makes them heavy.
She
shares victories and soften losses. She is there when she is needed. Always.
She
bears, nurses, protects, loves, teaches, guides
and
then she lets them go.
Her
children may be gone from her home but never from her heart.
Their
heartaches become her heartaches
and
their joys her joys.
She
is a mother.
She
may not be rich, but she has great wealth. Her children are her jewels.
She
is a partner with her husband
and
with God.
She
is a civilizer, a builder of homes, a keeper of communities,
and
a shaper of nations.
Her
calling is divine, her work is of eternity.
In
life, her work is essential. In death, her memory is sacred.
In
her soul, these words are indelibly inscribed, - "I am a
mother."
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Thanks Bro. and Sister Farmer! I love being a mother. Best job ever.
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